Monogamy, explained

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In 2016, more than 2.2 million couples got married in America, but more than 800,000 got divorced. Cheating and breakups cause grief and heartache every day. Yet some historians and evolutionary biologists say monogamy is a relatively new, self-imposed system. Their evidence suggests humans lived without it for more than 250,000 years. And we only started marrying for love in the 1700s.
So if monogamy is so hard, why do most of us, all around the world, make it a central goal of our lives?
Vox tackled this question in the first episode of our new show with Netflix, Explained, which premieres today! We’ll have new episodes every Wednesday, on topics ranging from monogamy to gene editing to the racial wealth gap to K-pop and more. If you like our videos, then you’ll love this show; it’s our most ambitious video project to date.
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  • Here's Episode 1 of our new show on Netflix, called "Explained." Episodes 2 & 3 are at www.netflix.com/explained right now, and we're releasing new episodes every Wednesday. Thanks for watching and supporting us over the years, we love making videos for all of you!

    VoxVoxHace un año
    • @Tech Freak my point is that they don't select based on merit but whether or not you're jewish or some other so called minority. What do you think we would find if we looked at the demographic breakdown of rejection letters? What percent do you think would be jewish? Hmm i'm willing to wager jews are rejected at a lesser rate than any other

      DispatcherDispatcherHace 4 meses
    • @Dispatcher Only a small percentage of high school students apply to Harvard. Only a small percentage of that gets in.

      Tech FreakTech FreakHace 4 meses
    • @Bella Andrade If you on Reddit, you can read and watch the discussion of the episodes, though idk how popular it is.

      Tech FreakTech FreakHace 4 meses
    • Are you making more???

      Heather WyckoffHeather WyckoffHace 7 meses
    • @Libertas Sadly Vox are a bunch of racist liars. You might as well go to 8Chan and try to get educated there, more objective facts and less bias found there than in Vox. .....And 8Chan are utter knobs.

      Blah bBlah bHace 10 meses
  • "Explained" is a horrible name for a show. When you search for it on ESproject or Google, it completely drowns in other results. Lots of people never find it.

    Tue SorensenTue SorensenHace 12 horas
  • This should be declared as an opinionated documentary

    Yudi MuchanisYudi MuchanisHace 13 horas
  • All I hear are excuses,self control is a state of mind and if you don't care about the other's feelings you'll do whatever you want,therefore you do not love or care about that person enough to commit to them.

    GegeGegeHace 6 días
  • This didn't answer any of my questions, it just makes me more depressed

    Spirita AkhenaytorSpirita AkhenaytorHace 11 días
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    Emokiriemi AbednegoEmokiriemi AbednegoHace 14 días
  • Interesting episode!

    HJEMHJEMHace 17 días
  • How could they talk about monogamy and not mention STD's

    Nicoli XavierNicoli XavierHace 17 días
  • @Vox: You should clarify if the stated # of marriages and divorces in 2016 are for the same couple. It sounds too high. Even though 800k got divorced, some or most of them could be from marriages before 2016! It's very easy to mislead people with data.

    Avinash AcharyaAvinash AcharyaHace 19 días
  • Monogamy is natural for me. Nonmonogamy is unnatural for me. Tried it & couldn't do it. It was an AWFUL experience for me. For them nonmonogamy is natural & they can do monogamy.

    Heather Adele TateHeather Adele TateHace 19 días
  • Monogamous people care for their partner feelings. Non monogamous people care to get the most out of life.

    ambaradan66ambaradan66Hace 20 días
  • The real issue here is people who are committed to poligamy don't let their partner know about it and prefer that their partner is committed to monogamy. More so they lie about their real values

    Natalie JNatalie JHace un mes
  • Love the intro. Thank you guys. ❤️

    Felipe BaqueroFelipe BaqueroHace un mes
  • Very good ending sentence

    Janie TylerJanie TylerHace un mes
  • make human more human

    cecep sukendatcecep sukendatHace un mes
  • “THROUPLE” 😂

    Alex AguilarAlex AguilarHace 2 meses
  • Polyamory, Explained. Please make it so.

    MonicanoMonicanoHace 2 meses
  • Why do we pay for Netflix though? 😅

    Lavi MarkLavi MarkHace 2 meses
  • Actually, people married by love before 17 the century. Most of commoners, actually. And there's a difference between polygamy and promiscuity. Polygamy is a marriage of a man with several women. Promiscuity is a way to end of civilized society.

    ImiyImiyHace 2 meses
  • Plenty of nutters in the comments. Bible freaks and Poly propagandists all. If you're monogamous good for you. If you're non-monogamous well done. Just live and let live - simple as that.

    Bin BrailBin BrailHace 2 meses
  • In hunter gatherer times it didn't matter if the child wasn't yours because it would definitely have been fathered by another man in that pack and they all raised the children, men, women, elderly people, older children, they all played their parts in hunting, gathering & child rearing, its society that made monogamy

    Jess MoselyJess MoselyHace 2 meses
    • @Jade Williams not my point, I'm a monogamist

      Jess MoselyJess MoselyHace 29 días
    • Well now we live in very close, competitive societies. No one is going around helping everyone pay theirs bills. There is 8 billion of us. Monogamy is the safest bet in a world/population this large. So, every child can definitely be looked after. Society did create monogamy but it wasn't for no reason.

      Jade WilliamsJade WilliamsHace un mes
  • Yeah let's now talk about doing away with the discriminatory divorce and alimony laws that are being legally enforced against men. Right Vox?

    Default2012Default2012Hace 2 meses
  • 9:33 You are welcome

    NuggetnChill ArchivesNuggetnChill ArchivesHace 3 meses
  • "25 years and I would have got out on good behavior" Old mate is funny 😂😂

    Bush ManBush ManHace 3 meses
  • was a bit worried about the harshness of the beginning of this video, but the excellent ending more than made up for it! great conclusions! ( i think of it like the blue-eyed brown eyed study- the most important thing was watching the kids grades and outlooks on life improve once they knew the difference between what is natural, and what is human made. that's where we will find value).

    Slaves ForgingSlaves ForgingHace 3 meses
  • Non monogamy is different from cheating , that's like stealing and buying.

    Thivya PrasadThivya PrasadHace 3 meses
  • this is triggering my anger issues to the fullest! Blasphemous!

    Prateik SharmaPrateik SharmaHace 3 meses
    • I suggest you to form a mob and lynch a minority bro.

      Thivya PrasadThivya PrasadHace 3 meses
  • Is everyone just not considering the high risk of STDs involved in Polygamous relationships?

    Keirra ĘwaKeirra ĘwaHace 3 meses
    • @Jade Williams Thats exactly what I'm saying.

      Keirra ĘwaKeirra ĘwaHace 29 días
    • Well monogamy definitely helps prevent STDs. Sleeping with one person (and if they are only sleeping with you) then you won't get a std. But if you sleep with multiple people your risks go up. A huge pro to monogamy is that as our population got bigger, we moved into closer proximity, you would avoid STDs by only having one partner.

      Jade WilliamsJade WilliamsHace un mes
  • God ordained marriage and the family, but this video unintentionally tries to explain away God.. which would make marriage obsolete anyway. "Let no one separate what God has joined together". This "explained'" series is all about "explaining" life without a Creator. Our DNA was designed and created, just like every other creature on earth. We all have DNA and similarities. I believe it's because we were all painted by the same artist. Not "all creatures evolved from a single cell".. How tragic it would be to wake up in the face of your Creator in the end, after spending your whole life pretending there never was one.

    Austin M.Austin M.Hace 3 meses
  • Monogamy helped to increase the population. I think that's the only purpose of this rule.

    godspeasantgodspeasantHace 3 meses
    • It also helped prevent rapid spread of STDs and fatherless babies.

      Jade WilliamsJade WilliamsHace un mes
  • why did you take out season 1 of explained after season 2 dropped?!

    sanchitasanchitaHace 3 meses
  • People make up all kind of excuses to defend monogamy.

    William SmithWilliam SmithHace 4 meses
  • I literally gave this lecture on Friday and I told my students the reason we are so bad at being faithful is that it's not in our nature and we are the only primates trying to deviate from the polygamous way of our species.

    bernhard mukuvebernhard mukuveHace 4 meses
  • This is why Vox is King of journalism today

    venture bullettrain321venture bullettrain321Hace 4 meses
  • Oh the Hugh Manatee

    venture bullettrain321venture bullettrain321Hace 4 meses
  • Polyamory (not Polygamy) is a great solution to all this nonsense..

    cappie2000cappie2000Hace 4 meses
  • I really enjoy the series. It's really interesting, i just wish i was dubbed on my native language so my friend could watch, or maybe bring to my classroom.

    xiuwuyixiuwuyiHace 4 meses
  • Did this show get cancelled? It was so good!

    jlaguerm 15jlaguerm 15Hace 4 meses
  • We love to own things especially other people

    grndragon7777777grndragon7777777Hace 5 meses
  • There is still 1 million people in love

    Micayla VargasMicayla VargasHace 5 meses
  • worth reading Frederick Engel's "The origin of family, private property and the state"

    Franz Rieger BremenFranz Rieger BremenHace 5 meses
  • 9:47 She's doing it while her baby is hanging on her belly 😭

    Hel OovaGüdDipHel OovaGüdDipHace 5 meses
  • I hate this video. But I like that they put Chopin’s waltz in at 13:45.

    Johnny English24Johnny English24Hace 5 meses
  • would have appreciated a bit more on the historic side - why not talk about the church?

    KLuiz7KLuiz7Hace 6 meses
  • God made Adam one wife

    Clorox BleachClorox BleachHace 6 meses
    • Humans created the fairy tale called the Bible.

      ****Hace 5 meses
  • *PROPA - GANDA*

    Aidan Madiba SuessAidan Madiba SuessHace 6 meses
  • There is no such thing as unnatural behaviour. Humans are part of nature, therefore their behaviour is also. Monogamy is as natural as polygamy.

    Ân GeloÂn GeloHace 6 meses
    • Totally agree.

      Jade WilliamsJade WilliamsHace un mes
  • I love ONLY you. *send to all*

    Gagan SinghGagan SinghHace 6 meses
  • So you're saying my wife wont get mad if I call her by another name and confuse her interests with my side chick. That sounds like a recipe for disaster

    Dillon JohnsonDillon JohnsonHace 6 meses
    • It's obviously not a polygamous relationship if you both don't agree to it.

      bluedreamboatbluedreamboatHace 3 meses
  • I recommend Brett and Heather Weinstein for anyone who’s interested in an educated expert opinion on evolutionary monogamy.

    Mr. AppleseedMr. AppleseedHace 6 meses
  • I'm highly against polygamy. I think in a relationship we need loyalty and I can't fathom any form of loyalty in a polygamous relationship. In this society I believe in the end of the day, you have to stay committed to one person.

    Sam XxSam XxHace 6 meses
    • @** or maybe they cheat because hook up culture is ruining society.

      Jade WilliamsJade WilliamsHace un mes
    • That's what society told you. thats Most people become unhappy and cheat.

      ****Hace 5 meses
  • How did they make an entire video without so much as to mentioning one of the main pushers of religion and marital coercion, religion?

    kashiandevskashiandevsHace 6 meses
  • I couldn't agree more with this episode

    vas asvas asHace 6 meses
  • Great video, never thought about it like that, would never be able to put this into words, now I can just share this video

    Stefan SmithStefan SmithHace 6 meses
  • It's very nice it's called "Explained" when all they do is build up an argument against Monogamy. How can you call it scientific? Where's the other side? What about those people who chose to stay and marry their partner out of love and they both seee marriage as not a "rule" (oh my lord) but a celebration of their relationship. And what if they actually enjoy it? Why can't being with one person be satisfying? I mean if they both feel that their relationship is only complete if they are with more than one person fair enough, but we should not discredit those who actually want to stay with one partner.

    Tóth OdettTóth OdettHace 6 meses
  • What is the son g from 01:52?

    Mr SilvupleMr SilvupleHace 6 meses
  • "monogamy community", er.. you mean CULT.. or can such a group be a cult, since it's part of CULTure.. isn't the difference just in the numbers, anyway?

    psychotic fairypsychotic fairyHace 6 meses
    • Cult: a person or thing that is popular or fashionable among a particular group or section of society. Since non-monogamy is the smaller community by far it'd be more logical to call that a cult, but I don't believe either one is a cult.

      Mr. VestacusMr. VestacusHace 6 meses
  • 2:55 25 years...Bazinga!

    E HernandezE HernandezHace 6 meses
  • 8:07 Am I evil for thinking for a moment that they were mother and son

    Don't Lewd IbarakiDon't Lewd IbarakiHace 6 meses
  • When’s season 2

    Alex GeaneyAlex GeaneyHace 6 meses